resolutions for the new year…???
January 17, 2007 by joannetan86
doria’s latest blog entry was kinda inspiring. kudos to her! yeah, like usual, i went "poking my nose" reading other peoples’ blogs - updating myself on what’s happening in their lives lately. but doria’s entry actually left a mark in me… it made me think why people wanna make new year resolutions (it’s a trend every new year) and why they wanna strive so hard to fulfill them. i was really impressed with what she wrote in that entry (though i teased her for some of the things she wrote… can’t help it again, doria).
writing resolutions for ownself every time a new year dawns is very not my "thing". i’ve tried writing before, about things i wanna do, improve or achieve for the new year… got really excited and inspired about fulfilling them but at the end, it was really "hot hot chicken shit" (hangat-hangat tahi ayam) and everything started going kinda low-key.
so that was the story… the whole idea. resolutions never worked for me. i’ve made many resolutions before like try being nicer to people, to talk less & listen more, to be more lady-like, to control my temper, to sleep less & study more, to reduce my craves for chocs etc. all these, i never achieved. resolutions just simply never worked for me. no effects…
i truly admire those who really state down their resolutions, work hard to fulfill them and finally succeed. these are the ppl with great determination - something i lack. they really strive hard to achieve what they’ve set for the new year for self-satisfaction. wow…
WARNING: if you’re reading this blog, please dun try to talk me into making another try for resolutions… believe me, i’ve tried a billion times and never succeeded!
but as i grow older, i learn that one does not need a new year to make a resolution or even resolution itself. if you really need or want to improve yourself in something, set your goal, pick a timeline and just go ahead. but again, i’m not saying that those who do make new year resolutions are wrong. i’m just talking from my point of view. do whatever you think is right… follow your heart. you dun have to agree with me.
the simple truth: resolutions are not for me.
cries….
ok ?
i didnt make any new year resolution.
but than i have a resolution for you today… that is explaining what you read in my blog….haha why you think its you leh! i was talking about my kominikasi berkesan class la my lecturer is the 1 who assign my group member u just imagine 1 group 10 members + only me and sarit (if you remember the gurl i was talking about in my latest blog)was FSKSMers i was hard thou but i think me and sarit can accept each other ideas and comment… the worst part is lecturer also who assign the leaders *sigh* he/she is a veryyyyyyy goood asssssss kisser
haha..
it’s not working for me too..
but at least if u noe wat u wanna do and wat u ave to every sec, it would be enuf for u to live in diz world..u urself that can change u..make ur own decision and go for it…
good luck in ur life~