love conquers all
February 1, 2007 by joannetan86
chuck, my friend, wrote a short and yet meaningful entry in his blog about love… i read it and personally thought that it was enlightening. maybe some of you might wanna go check his blog out ’cause he certainly has got many interesting things going on there. the link: http://chucksagacious.blogs.friendster.com/a_tint_of_idea/
as valentine’s day is approaching, i thought it would be appropriate to write something on love (probably in addition to what chuck has written in his blog). i’m not an expert in this affair nor am i a love guru who can counsel you when you face a relationship dilemma. this is simply just a piece of my thought that i would like to share and hope that it might, in some ways, great or small, help those who are going thru tough times in their relationships.
to some of you, love is in the air and you’re enjoying every single bit of it in your relationship… tasting and savouring the goodness that comes with love. but to some others who are less fortunate, love isn’t as sweet as it used to be. they can’t seem to find the way out. the only thing (they think) they could do is just sit around and wait or simply go thru the motions and let time decide the course.
well, relationship is never always a bed of roses but it is also never always a garden of thorns. you may be going thru a hard time in your relationship and just don’t know how to deal with it. you and your partner are both lost in this complicated maze of love or are both stuck in a long dark tunnel of which the end of that tunnel you cannot see from where you both are standing right now. but this doesn’t necessarily mean that your fairytale has to end here. take it as a trial or a test that both of you are put to go thru. you’ll learn something out of it whether you survive the test or not. what’s most important is that this test will help you in your future and make you or your partner a better, stronger, more mature person. it will prepare you to be more expectant of what the future has in-stored for you. so don’t just sit there and do nothing about your relationship. there is always something that can be done to improve the situation. you just have to try harder. the trick is: DO SOMETHING! if you never try, you’ll never know. try your best to save the situation. even if you don’t succeed, at least you’ve given your best shot to make things work out… you actually feel satisfied that way.
what you can do to improve the situation is all up to you. no one can suggest to you the best or most effective way to save your relationship… it all depends on you. only you know what is best. you gotta observe, study and understand the whole problem you’re going thru. take responsibility in all that you do. your relationship is in the hands of both you and your partner. the only thing that we’re sure of is the foundation of all relationships: LOVE. when there is still love, there is hope. if you still love him/her or if he/she still loves you or if you feel that there is still love radiating from your relationship or if you feel that it’s still worth the while saving it, don’t give up just yet. no matter how tough the situation may be, no matter how deep the cut is, no matter how serious the problem may look or no matter how terrible, horrible, bad, ugly, hard, sad etc the whole thing may sound or look, you’ll pull thru…if you still have love running in your blood, because at the end of the day, all of us know that LOVE CONQUERS ALL.
